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How loved would you feel if the following happened? Please think of your partner, or of how you would like to be treated.

Question 1 of 20 Your partner sincerely praises something you did well.
Not at allA littleModeratelyVery muchExtremely
Your partner puts the phone away and listens to you carefully.
Your partner brings you a small gift after a trip.
When you are busy, your partner does the housework without being asked.
Your partner holds your hand when you walk together.
Your partner says “I love you” or “I care about you”.
You go for a walk or have a meal together and talk.
Your partner remembers something you wanted and later gives it to you.
Your partner deals with a task that has been troubling you.
Your partner hugs you when you meet and when you say goodbye.
Your partner speaks well of you in front of others.
Your partner keeps a whole day free to spend with you.
On a festival or anniversary, you receive a gift your partner chose with care.
When you are ill, your partner looks after your meals and daily needs.
Your partner sits close and leans against you.
When you are sad, your partner says encouraging words.
You do something together that you both enjoy.
Your partner gives you something they made themselves.
Your partner gets something done before you even ask.
When you are sad, your partner holds you.

Result

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About this quiz

The questions and the names of the five ways were written by this website. The test is for self-reflection and entertainment. It is not a psychological assessment.
Each answer scores 1 to 5. Each way has 4 questions, so its score is from 4 to 20. The way with the highest score is the one that matters most to you. If two or more are equal, all are shown.

Scale	Meaning
Kind words	Sincere praise, encouragement and hearing “I care about you” make you feel most loved. Please tell your partner this, and say what you feel in words.
Time together	Your partner's full attention makes you feel most loved. Please agree on regular time together without phones or other interruptions.
Thoughtful gifts	A thoughtful gift makes you feel most loved. What matters to you is that your partner remembered you, not the price.
Practical help	Practical help makes you feel most loved. Please tell your partner which tasks would help you most.
Physical closeness	Holding hands, hugs and sitting close make you feel most loved. Please let your partner know that these small gestures matter to you.